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Alzheimer's, Dementia, and Parkinson's Disease - Douglas Scharre, MD |
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Asset Protection & Financial Management - John Greener |
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Cancer Care - Richy Agajanian, MD |
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Caregiver Planning - Gail M. Samaha |
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Communication Through The Generations - David Solie, MS, PA |
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Diabetes - Joy K. Richardson, RD, CDE |
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Elder Care at Home - Steve Barlam |
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Elder Law - Bernard A. Krooks, J.D., CPA, LLM, CELA, AEP - Richard L. Newman, Esq. |
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End-of-Life Issues - Vincent Dopulos, MA, LPC, RDT |
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Fitness - Deborah Quilter |
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Geriatrics - Robert A Murden, MD |
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Home Care Solutions - Emma R. Dickison |
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Home Health Care & Palliative Care - Pamela Fishman, LCSW |
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Home Health Modifications - Connie Hallquist |
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Housing Choices - Mike Campbell |
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Incontinence Issues - Brian Christine, MD |
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Integrative Medicine - Rashmi Gulati, MD |
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Live In Care - Kathy N. Johnson, PhD, CMC |
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Managing Medicare - Ross Blair |
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Memory Care - AnnaMarie Barba - Crystal Roberts |
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Mobility Issues - Nick Gutwein |
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Nutrition Know-How - Dr. Gourmet, Timothy S. Harlan, M.D. |
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Quality of Life - Joan Garbow, MSW, LCSW, CCM |
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Safety and Hospitalization Concerns - Martine Ehrenclou |
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Senior Healthcare - Archelle Georgiou, MD |
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Senior Medical Issues - Chris Iliades, MD |
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Senior Transitions - Mary Kay Buysse, MS |
![]() | Bernard A. Krooks is a founding partner of the law firm Littman Krooks LLP and Chair of its Elder Law and Special Needs Department. Mr. Krooks is a nationally-recognized expert in all aspects of elder law and special needs planning. View Bernard's full Bio |
![]() | Richard L. Newman has been a practicing attorney for over twenty years and specializes in Elder Law and Special Needs Law. His practice is devoted to serving some of the most vulnerable members of our society and the families that are caring for them. View Richard's full Bio |
If an individual becomes a legal guardian, is there any financial obligations? Would guardian be responsible for any medical costs or care facilities.
My father is 88 and has had a stroke. My sister and I have POA for my father. In the POA there is a clause—"The legal duty to keep the principal’s property separate and distinct from any other property owned or controlled by you." But now that he can no longer live alone, I was going to move him in to my house and store his stuff in my garage. The way I read this that would violate that clause. Is that correct?
I want my mother to come back home to live with me. She is 91 and has some dementia. Quite some time ago my mother gave my older sister power of attorney over financial matters. I think that is the only kind she has, but I am uncertain. Is there any way to find out? Must a power of attorney be registered somewhere publicly, in the state, city, courthouse, somewhere to be legally binding? What I’m wondering is if my sibling could have admitted my mother into a nursing home by just signing in as her representative or only through a power of attorney. And if the latter, what kind of power of attorney must my sister have to keep my mother there and prevent me from checking her out?
I have, over the years, acted as my mother's representative just by admission of being her daughter and, her being in my care, signed things for her at the doctor's office and such. I had nothing legal that said I could—no piece of paper, just the physical fact and evidence that she lived with me.
ViewMy mom is 75 and has Alzheimer’s. She is currently in an assisted living center in Ohio where my brother and sister live. My mom’s health is progressively getting worse and with that the cost of her care has one exceeded the money she receives monthly. It now has forced us kids to pick up the difference, which is a financial strain on us all and this is only the start of the rising costs. My mom has a house in Florida, which she is renting because when we had to move her home to Ohio we could not get the money it was worth. My brother and his wife’s names are on the mortgage and my mom is only on the deed. The IRS has a lien on the house because of taxes. My mom has not paid. Is is it her house or my brother’s legally? We need to know how to handle the house situation and ensure that it is not considered an asset of my mom’s so we can apply for assistance for her care.
My Father, age 75, is refusing medical care for a chronic debilitating condition. My stepmother, 72, is a nurse and has every one convinced (but me) that she’s got everything under control. She herself is looking frail—her mother suffered and died of Alzheimer’s by age 80. What can I do legally to help them even when they refuse it? Things are getting worse—they are in denial about the severity of the situation. I am in San Diego, and they and my 3 siblings are in Chicago.
ViewMy parents are both 94 years old and still live by themselves.My mom has dementia and my dad takes care of her. It is getting more difficult for him to take care of her and we may have to move her to a nursing home soon. Can we still do something to protect their assets or is it too late?
ViewMy two brothers and I are my Moms appointed guardians. She is in assisted living and has run out of money to pay for it. She has a mobile home to sell. I recently borrowed $10,000 on a credit card to help her until the house sells. Unfortunately there was a lot of work to prepare the mobile home and she is again out of money. Can I loan her more funds and not have to worry about taking back the money to pay my credit card bills once the house sells? Her bills are a litte behind at this point, and my worry is they will evict her.
My best friend's father suffers from advanced dementia. His long time family doctor has certified to that, and his long time psychiatrist has also certified to that. My best friend has petitioned for guardianship, however his father is fighting it and was able to get a doctor to falsely say that he is not incapable of handling his affairs. The gentleman involved is a danger to himself and a danger to society. Is there anyway for my friend to obtain guardianship without a long drawn out, costly battle in court? The key issue is that the gentleman involved is a danger to himself and to society.
ViewMy brother has two felony convictions and is living with mom rent free (has for the past ten years--he places guilt and she feels guilt because it is a direct reflection on her parenting or lack thereof, and co-dependency, and he makes her feel guilty for his messed up life) and is exercising "undue influence" over her life and manipulative control.
He took her to see an attorney who says he can continue to live there rent free and also is seeking a neurological test of mom, I suspect to contrive a scenario where my brother can continue to manipulate her "legally." He frequently makes statements like when and if I have to leave I am never coming back. If mom is declared competent, can he be appointed conservator or guardian even with his soiled background, or if I object can a court appoint either myself or an independent 3rd party?
My dad has Medicare and Medicaid and we were entitled to a home accommodation. They came and made an existing sidewalk wider while they were suppose to have incorporated a side for an initial exit to the gate. It’s very hard for my Dad of 83 to be wheeled to the garage and the benefit insurer is giving us a very hard time. I have tried to appeal the work, but because I also have disability issues, I get frustrated and tired of keeping up with them. They are not taking our concerns seriously. I have letter after letter, phone call after phone call and they are avoiding the real issue and causing us a lot of unnecessary grief and discomfort. Their contractors took the money and made it seem like we exhausted the benefit. What should we do?
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If an individual becomes a legal guardian, is there any financial obligations? Would guardian be responsible for any medical costs or care facilities. Kim from NJ |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. There is no personal financial responsibility for the guardian unless he/she is guilty of misconduct. The guardian uses the ward's funds to pay for the ward's expenses. I hope this helps. |
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My father is 88 and has had a stroke. My sister and I have POA for my father. In the POA there is a clause—"The legal duty to keep the principal’s property separate and distinct from any other property owned or controlled by you." But now that he can no longer live alone, I was going to move him in to my house and store his stuff in my garage. The way I read this that would violate that clause. Is that correct? Brian from CA |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. The clause you are referring to typically pertains to financial assets. There should be no problem moving dad's personal effects into your house. |
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I want my mother to come back home to live with me. She is 91 and has some dementia. Quite some time ago my mother gave my older sister power of attorney over financial matters. I think that is the only kind she has, but I am uncertain. Is there any way to find out? Must a power of attorney be registered somewhere publicly, in the state, city, courthouse, somewhere to be legally binding? What I’m wondering is if my sibling could have admitted my mother into a nursing home by just signing in as her representative or only through a power of attorney. And if the latter, what kind of power of attorney must my sister have to keep my mother there and prevent me from checking her out? I have, over the years, acted as my mother's representative just by admission of being her daughter and, her being in my care, signed things for her at the doctor's office and such. I had nothing legal that said I could—no piece of paper, just the physical fact and evidence that she lived with me. A from WY |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. Unless the POA is being used to transfer real estate it does not have to be recorded or registered anywhere. To find out if your sister has POA, ask your mother. If she is unable or willing to tell you, then ask your sister. If she won't tell you, then you could commence a guardianship if mom's affairs are not being handled properly. In this proceeding you could seek to revoke the POA. The nursing home admission agreement must be reviewed to determine who has the power to sign mom out. Typically for health care decisions you would need an advance medical directive. I hope this helps.
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My mom is 75 and has Alzheimer’s. She is currently in an assisted living center in Ohio where my brother and sister live. My mom’s health is progressively getting worse and with that the cost of her care has one exceeded the money she receives monthly. It now has forced us kids to pick up the difference, which is a financial strain on us all and this is only the start of the rising costs. My mom has a house in Florida, which she is renting because when we had to move her home to Ohio we could not get the money it was worth. My brother and his wife’s names are on the mortgage and my mom is only on the deed. The IRS has a lien on the house because of taxes. My mom has not paid. Is is it her house or my brother’s legally? We need to know how to handle the house situation and ensure that it is not considered an asset of my mom’s so we can apply for assistance for her care. Chris from FL |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. Chris, the Medicaid rules are very state specific. I suggest you speak with a certified elder law attorney in Ohio where your mom resides. Generally speaking, if someone is in a nursing home and doesn't intend to return home, then their former residence is considered an available resource with respect to Medicaid eligibility. |
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My Father, age 75, is refusing medical care for a chronic debilitating condition. My stepmother, 72, is a nurse and has every one convinced (but me) that she’s got everything under control. She herself is looking frail—her mother suffered and died of Alzheimer’s by age 80. What can I do legally to help them even when they refuse it? Things are getting worse—they are in denial about the severity of the situation. I am in San Diego, and they and my 3 siblings are in Chicago. Jean from CA |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. If parents have legal capacity and would grant POA and health care directives that would be better. It doesn't sound like your stepmom would do that since she thinks things are going fine. You need to go to court to seek permission from a judge to make decisions for your stepmom and dad. This process can take several weeks and is very complex. |
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My parents are both 94 years old and still live by themselves.My mom has dementia and my dad takes care of her. It is getting more difficult for him to take care of her and we may have to move her to a nursing home soon. Can we still do something to protect their assets or is it too late? Debbie from OH |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. It is never too late to take steps to protect your assets. While it is certainly advantageous to plan ahead, there may very well be worthwhile options for you to pursue. You should consult with a certified elder law attorney in your state. |
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My two brothers and I are my Moms appointed guardians. She is in assisted living and has run out of money to pay for it. She has a mobile home to sell. I recently borrowed $10,000 on a credit card to help her until the house sells. Unfortunately there was a lot of work to prepare the mobile home and she is again out of money. Can I loan her more funds and not have to worry about taking back the money to pay my credit card bills once the house sells? Her bills are a litte behind at this point, and my worry is they will evict her. Sharon from PA |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. It is best to seek court approval for the loans. Since you are already appointed guardian, simply make an application to the court. Also, it is very important to document everything. |
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My best friend's father suffers from advanced dementia. His long time family doctor has certified to that, and his long time psychiatrist has also certified to that. My best friend has petitioned for guardianship, however his father is fighting it and was able to get a doctor to falsely say that he is not incapable of handling his affairs. The gentleman involved is a danger to himself and a danger to society. Is there anyway for my friend to obtain guardianship without a long drawn out, costly battle in court? The key issue is that the gentleman involved is a danger to himself and to society. Tony from MD |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. A guardianship is the way your friend can gain control over his dad's affairs; however, your dad has the right to fight it and if he can convince the judge that he has capacity, then a guardian will not be appointed. Merely having dementia does not necessarily mean you need a guardian, although it may depending on the individual circumstances. The only way to get to the bottom of it is to proceed in court and if dad contests the guardianship, expect a long drawn out, costly proceeding. |
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My brother has two felony convictions and is living with mom rent free (has for the past ten years--he places guilt and she feels guilt because it is a direct reflection on her parenting or lack thereof, and co-dependency, and he makes her feel guilty for his messed up life) and is exercising "undue influence" over her life and manipulative control. Tom from CO |
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Answered by Bernard A. Krooks, Esq. If you are concerned about mom and you feel that she does not have the capacity to make decisions for herself, you can commence a guardianship proceeding to have someone else appointed as her guardian to make personal and financial decisions for her. The person appointed guardian is determined by the judge and it may or may not be you. It could be a third party. Keep in mind, however, that people are allowed to make what you think are "bad" decisions such as living with someone and being influenced by them. That does not mean that they need a guardian. They only need a guardian if they cannot understand and appreciate |
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My dad has Medicare and Medicaid and we were entitled to a home accommodation. They came and made an existing sidewalk wider while they were suppose to have incorporated a side for an initial exit to the gate. It’s very hard for my Dad of 83 to be wheeled to the garage and the benefit insurer is giving us a very hard time. I have tried to appeal the work, but because I also have disability issues, I get frustrated and tired of keeping up with them. They are not taking our concerns seriously. I have letter after letter, phone call after phone call and they are avoiding the real issue and causing us a lot of unnecessary grief and discomfort. Their contractors took the money and made it seem like we exhausted the benefit. What should we do? Ms Z from TX |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. This is a very complex issue. Since this is a private insurer, you need to go up the chain of command at your insurance company. If you still don't get any satisfaction then you should either contact the state's insurance commission or hire an attorney to sue the insurance company. |
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Can a staff person ( e.g.nurse) of an assisted living facility alter an agreement to provide services to a resident that has been agreed to by the guardian and Mental Health Center team? If so, under what conditions? If not so, what protections do the guardian and resident have against the assisted living facility (e.g., HIPPA? Rights of the disabled? New federal health care law?). Elaine from NH |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. Assisted Living regulations vary from state to state, but chances are the agreement itself specifies the terms and condition upon which it can be altered. Your best option is to consult a lawyer within your state for specific guidance. |
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When does a caregiver need to hire an attorney? Sheewana from GA |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. If the caregiver is a family member taking care of a parent, then I would suggest that the family contact an elder law attorney as soon as possible. There are asset protection strategies that can be used in conjunction with a family caregiver and that is something that should be discussed with a knowledgeable and experienced attorney. |
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My parents live in South Carolina. My dad is in the early stages of dementia, but my mom is very sharp. They are both in their mid ’80s. I have been told that we (the children) need to do 2 things. One is get a power of attorney for my father and the second is to put their assets in a trust. What type of power of attorney (durable, etc) would you suggest and would putting their assets into a trust protect their future? Finally, how do we choose a reputable and fair attorney to do these? Jill from GA |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. My advice would be to make absolutely certain that your father is competent to sign a Power of Attorney. Perhaps the best source to verify this would be the family doctor or the doctor who is treating your father for the dementia. The confirmation by the doctor should be in writing to avoid any issues regarding the legality of the Power of Attorney down the road. If your father is competent to sign a Power of Attorney, I would have a Financial Power of Attorney and a Health Care Power of Attorney prepared and signed as soon as possible. Based on the information given, I would have VERY SERIOUS reservations about putting assets into a trust, especially a Revocable Living Trust. Assets that are transferred to a trust are subject to the five year look back period if an application is made for medical assistance. Although it is not pleasant to think about, the chances of your father needing long term care in a facility within the next five years are fairly significant. I would say that there are better planning techniques available to protect some of the assets. Finally, the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys has a great website to help find an attorney who can best help with these kinds of issues. The address for that website is: http://naela.org/. |
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Our stepfather is caring for our mother and some of the things mentioned in the recent article on elder abuse are happening. We are now not allowed to see our Mother because we have caused him trouble by calling for a wellness check, talking to agency on aging and adult protective services. The police say we cannot force our way in to see her. She lives in KS. I live in AZ. and I have a sister in KS who tries to see her. We do not have money to hire lawyers and her doctor says there is nothing they can do. Sue from AZ |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. The best solution is for the daughter living in Kansas to file a petition to be appointed Guardian of her mother. It would be appropriate to cite any situations where you feel that the step-father abused your mother, either physically, emotionally or financially, as long as you have proof. Since you do not have money to hire a lawyer, you should approach the Legal Aid office in the county where the daughter living in Kansas resides to see if someone from that office can file the Petition. |
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What are the advantages or disadvantages as a senior to putting my house in a revocable trust? |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. A trust is a legally binding document in which you give another person or entity the right to manage certain designated assets. Once the assets are placed into the trust, they are no longer owned by you, but rather by the trust. Generally a trust can either be revocable or irrevocable. A revocable trust, for the most part, means that the trust can be cancelled at any time by the person who made the trust. An irrevocable trust usually means that assets placed into the trust are there until either they are dissipated by the trust or the person making the trust dies. Assets put into an irrevocable trust generall cannot be taken back by the person who put them into trust. |
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What is the meaning and significance of “The Five Year Look Back Period?” |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. Many times when talking to clients about planning for long term care they tell me that they are aware of something called the "five-year look-back period." Unfortunately, many people don't understand the relevance of this period and why it is such an important concept in protecting assets from the cost of long-term care. In order to qualify for Medical Assistance (Medicaid), the amount an applicant can have in countable resources is very small and varies from state to state. For example, in Pennsylvania, countable resources cannot exceed $2,400, or $8,000 if the applicant's income is not in excess of $2,022 per month. |
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How can I be sure of getting good care in a nursing home? |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. Nobody wants to go into a nursing home and nobody wants to see a family member go into a home. However, there are many situations where long-term care in a nursing facility is the best option available. Receiving quality care in a nursing home is not only possible, but should be expected. The key is for family members to actively participate and remain highly visible. Pennsylvania law, for instance, requires a nursing home to assess the resident's condition, abilities and limitations within two weeks of admission. This "Care Plan" must describe the resident's needs and determine how those needs are to be met. The Care Plan must be revised if the resident's condition changes and additionally, regardless of the resident's condition, must be reviewed every three months. Family members should absolutely participate in the formulation and review of the Care Plan. It would also be very beneficial to have an advocate, such as a Geriatric Care Manager or Attorney present at all Care Plan meetings. Any nursing home that is certified to accept Medicare or Medicaid is governed by the Nursing Home Reform Act, which impose a number of requirements regarding the care of the residents. For example, the Act requires a nursing facility to help a resident maintain or improve their ability to bathe, dress, groom, walk, eat, talk and use the toilet. The resident must be able to remain as independent as possible. The home must try as hard as possible to prevent such things as bed sores, pressure ulcers or decubitus ulcers. The Nursing Home Reform Act significantly limits the use of restraints, which require a doctor's order. The use of a feeding tube is also limited and requires the consent of the resident or resident's representative. Family members can ensure they are seeing the full spectrum of staff and care they provide by visiting at varying times and days. If a family member is concerned about the care that is being provided, they should voice their concerns to the staff and work their way through the home's chain of command. If care does not improve, the family member should seek assistance from their local Long-Term Care Ombudsman. If still unsuccessful, the family member can complain to their state inspection agency and ultimately to the Center for Medicare & Medicaid Services. It is advisable for the family to engage the services of a Geriatric Care Manager and an Attorney during this process. |
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What is a power of attorney and why do I need one? |
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Answered by Richard L. Newman, Esq. Basically, a power of attorney is a written document in which an individual (the "principal") gives another person (the "agent") the authority to act for the principal on the terms and conditions specified in the document. That is the bare-boned legal definition of a power of attorney. Does that answer the question as to why one is necessary? Absolutely not! Therefore, here is a better definition: A power of attorney is a document that gives someone else the legal right to do things on your behalf. |
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