Communicating with a loved one who has dementia can be frustrating and at times confusing. The topic of Alzheimer’s care and senior living is one that is discussed often. Here are some general tips to consider when communicating with someone who has dementia.

• Be mindful of your body language:
  • Maintain eye contact.
  • Display a calm and gentle manner.
  • Utilize gentle touch such as handholding or a pat on the back to communicate encouragement and maintain their focus.
• Speak slowly and enunciate your words.
• Avoid negative commands such as “Don’t” or “You shouldn’t.”
• Avoid questions that require a strong short term memory, “What did you have for lunch today?”
• Utilize your loved one’s long term memory by saying things like, “I hear you are a wonderful cook.”
• Give simple instructions with one step at a time.
• Respond as though you understand, even if at times you do not.
• Speak in a respectful manner to your loved one, avoid a condescending tone.
• Avoid arguing and ordering the person around.

Hopefully these tips will help you when communicating with someone who has dementia and provides some relief in otherwise stressful situations.